Help for Children

An interview with Kevin Russell

Focus: Family OverComing Under Stress

Children can be the most vulnerable victims of the invisible wounds of war. They often don’t know how to process what’s happening or how to handle tough emotions. We provide care and support for you and your children to help your whole family begin to heal together.

Frequently Asked Questions About Protecting Your Children

How does my injury affect my children?

Your children know something has changed, but they don’t understand what it is or why it’s happening. If you’re suffering with PTSD or TBI, your children may be feeling some of the following ways:

Angry that you don’t care about their accomplishments or problems
Guilty that they are to blame for how you’re acting
Scared of you or what you may do next
Unsure about whether or not you love them
Worried that you cannot take care of them

How do I talk to my children about my injury?

Make it clear that your injury is not your child’s fault. Depending on your child’s age and maturity, explain what happened to you. Use simple language for young children, but be honest.

Assure them that you are there for them, answer their questions and comfort them. If you’re not sure how to start the conversation, don’t be afraid to seek help from a fellow veteran and/or a professional counselor.

How do I maintain their sense of security?

One of the best ways to help your children is by helping yourself. Seeking help and beginning to regain control over your emotions and your life will allow you to be there for your children.

By facing and conquering your struggle, you can provide the love, security and support your children need and deserve.

Assure your children that they have many people in their lives who love them and are there for them. Work with family, friends and teachers to ensure that your children are getting extra attention and the care they need.

Does my child need help?

Like you, your children may be struggling with your injury and your return home. While this is a normal reaction to a parent’s injury, if your children’s behavior continues to worsen, they may need additional help.

Signs that your child may need some professional help and support include the following:

Acting out or withdrawing
Becoming aggressive or physically violent
Fighting with friends and family
Problems in school
Showing signs of anxiety, depression or PTSD themselves, such as sleep disturbance, nightmares or irritability

Where can I learn more?

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